Terry Price, is a Tennessee based writer and photographer, with an MFA in writing from Spalding University in Louisville. He is a former Program Director and current mentor in MTSU Write (formerly The Writer’s Loft) creative writing program at Middle Tennessee State University. (www.mtsu.edu/write). He works with creatives one on one and leads workshops and retreats. He is also a labyrinth facilitator and leads workshop on using the labyrinth as both a spiritual and creative tool. His work has appeared in Writer’s Notes magazine, Bloodlotus, The Trunk, The Tennessee Writer, New Southerner and The Best of New Southerner and 2nd & Church. He has had two pieces nominated for the Pushcart Prize. You can find more of his work at www.terryprice.net and today, Terry shares his experience as a writer and creative coach to discuss how to find your voice as a writer.
I’ve worked with writers for many years now. I’ve coached and mentored beginning writers and reviewed manuscripts for those with experience. There are thousands of pieces of advice one can give the writer and almost as many books about writing on the market and more being published each day.
I’ve attended many author readings and signings and during the subsequent Q&A, those in attendance often ask similar questions of the author:
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Do you write in the morning or the afternoon?
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Do you use a pen and paper or a computer?
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Do you write at home or in a coffee shop?
There are many more questions from prospective writers hoping to get some insight as to the “magic” of producing a work. And while I do believe in the existence of magic and have experienced it through my art, it is not at the heart of writing. The heart of writing is…well, your heart.
It’s simplistic, but true that there has never been anyone exactly like you. Nor will there ever be.
Ever.
[tweet_dis]Oscar Wilde said, “Be yourself; everyone else is taken.”[/tweet_dis]
Salvador Dali was a bit more personal. “Every morning when I wake up, I experience an exquisite joy —the joy of being Salvador Dalí— and I ask myself in rapture: What wonderful things is this Salvador Dalí going to accomplish today?”
In art we talk about finding your voice. Years ago, I heard a poet being interviewed by Terry Gross on the public radio program, Fresh Air and she asked him about finding his voice. He said that he used to imagine sweeping his kitchen and upon moving the refrigerator to sweep beneath there, lo and behold, he would find his voice! He then got serious and went on to give the best definition I’ve heard:
“Finding your voice is telling your story in a way only you can tell it.”
That’s it. There is where you discover the magic.
Somehow, especially with newer writers, we either believe we have nothing new to say or our confidence is not strong enough to believe we can tell it in our own way. And that’s one of the surest ways to experience what we call writer’s block.
There is the old analogy of multiple people seeing a car accident. And if you ask each to tell what happened, they will each tell a different story. That’s because they all have different perspectives, different angles, different levels of paying attention.
Same accident. Different stories.
It’s the same with our writing. I grew up in the 1960’s in Nashville, Tennessee. I went to grade school, middle school, and high school with lots of friends and you could easily say that we pretty much went through the same things together. And we did. But ask any two of us to describe specific things and I promise you that we’ll end up with different stories.
So….
Never allow yourself to be convinced you don’t have anything “new” to say. Your story is your story. Even if it happened to a thousand other people, it’s your story.
Okay, you say, but I’ll never write it like Harper Lee, or Hemingway, or Rowling.
Good.
Each of those writers has their style. They found their voice.
Find yours.
How, you ask.
By writing. You string lovely words together and you keep doing it. You don’t worry about who is going to read them and you don’t worry about whether they ever find their way outside of your journal or hard drive. You just write them. And it doesn’t matter what time of day works best for you. And it doesn’t matter where you write as long as it works for you.
Author of legal thrillers, Scott Turow, wrote his second book, Presumed Innocent, by hand during his morning train commute to his Chicago job as a prosecuting attorney.
Read voraciously. Read things close to your heart because, you will find, that things you love to read are things that will resonate with your writing. Read craft books. Talk with other writers.
Continue to look, listen, and learn but never abdicate that which makes you, you. Never abdicate that which makes your writing, yours. When you receive advice, listen to it with your heart and if it feels right, then incorporate it into your work and it will make your voice stronger. If there is conflict with your heart, then disregard it and it, too, will make your voice stronger.
I could read you an otherwise indistinguishable passage from To Kill a Mockingbird and, likely, you’d know it was Lee’s work. How? Her voice. Same with Hemingway and Rowling. You may be a fan or you might not care about their work at all but they found their voices and they used them.
Find yours. Then, you’ll discover the true magic of writing. Because it will be your magic.
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Thanks for the great post.
I’m curious about one thing. Do you think a writer can always tell when he or she has found her voice? I’ve heard some people say it’s hard for you to hear your own voice because that’s what you always hear inside your head. Is it possible for a writer to “arrive” at her voice and not know it?
Hi, A.S.! Thanks for the note. Great question. When we say “voice” we’re really talking about your personal style. It’s not something you create. It just is. Now, your voice, your style, if you will, will grow and develop and become stronger the more you write. At first, it’s not unusual for writers to emulate those whose works they admire. And there’s nothing wrong with that as long as you allow yourself to grow and allow your confidence to grow so that you create from an authentic place. I’m not big on sports analogies but, if you’ll forgive me, When Michael Jordan was younger, he practiced and developed according to his coaching. He learned fundamentals but his movements were taught, were learned. As he gained experience and confidence, he began to play from an authentic place so that the game became his own.
And you don’t always know “when.” A few years back when I was working on my website and social media, I talked with a pro and said I didn’t really know about how to find my brand. And she said I already had one. I was puzzled! She said a brand isn’t something you make up. It’s who you are when you’re being authentic. She said my audience knew who I was from my writings, my photography, from my personality.
So it’s not really important that you are able to point to something and say, “that’s my voice.” The important thing is that you write. You write from that special place inside of you that exists nowhere else. Write about that which you are passionate. Be vulnerable. Be authentic. Be fierce even when the prose or poetry are soft. Just write. The voice will take care of itself. Yes, it’s very possible and actually likely that you will develop your voice while you are just doing what you love…writing. Good luck and let me know if I can be of any help! Have a lovely evening! Best, Terry
Thank for the detailed response, Terry! I’ll get back to the writing, then. 🙂 Alecia
My work is done here! 🙂 Wishing you a lovely and productive day and weekend. Stay to the page and your voice will find you.